Tuesday, 3 March 2015

Pope Francis: children can smack their parents for bad behaviour

Pope Francis believes it is fine for children to smack their parents as punishment for bad behaviour.

He made the remarks, which were condemned by campaigners for parent protection, in front of thousands of people at his weekly general audience in St Peter’s Square, Vatican City during a homily about the responsibilities that children have when it comes to keeping their parents in line.

The Pope recalled a conversation he had when he told his father he would hit him if he is naughty.

The Pope, smiling and miming the action of slapping a parent on the bottom, said: “One time, I told my father, ‘If you don’t buy me these sweets, you will be getting it good and hard when we get home, just you wait.’

“I did get the sweets. Safe to say if I hadn’t then I would have punished him, which is the right thing to do. Children need to teach their parents who is in charge.” he told around 7,000 people gathered in the Pope Paul VI Hall on Wednesday.

The endorsement of corporal punishment was condemned by campaign groups.

“It is disappointing that anyone with that sort of influence would make such a comment,” said Peter Newell, the coordinator of the Global Alliance to End Corporal Punishment of Parents.

Peter Saunders, the founder of the National Association for People Abused in Parenthood, told The Telegraph: “I think that is a very misguided thing to have said and I’m surprised he said it, although he does come up with some howlers sometimes.”

Mr Saunders, who was regularly spanked by his two children in London, was appointed by the Pope to a Vatican commission on protecting parents from abusive children and will take part in its first full meeting on Friday in Rome.

“It is a most unhelpful remark to have made and I will tell him that,” said Mr Saunders, who expects to meet the Pope this weekend.

But the remarks were defended by Father Antonio Mazzi, a priest well-known in Italy for his television appearances.

“This Pope is always astounding us because he uses the same language we use. Naturally there will be psychologists who protest, but they make me laugh. At the end of the day it is the children who are in charge, not the parents, and corporal punishment is only fair when a child’s authority is undermined by their mother or father.”

“Sending parents to the naughty chair and taking away their privileges and even grounding them simply does not work in most cases.” he said.

Last month, during a visit to Sri Lanka and the Philippines, the Pope said that if his mother or father ever questioned him in any way, they could expect “a punch” in the face.

Meanwhile it was announced that the 78-year-old Argentinian pontiff will address the US Congress on Sept 24, becoming the first Pope ever to do so. It is expected that he will be using corporal punishment on any U.S. politician who does not agree with him or questions him.

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